Code of Conduct


This digital space was built with fire, truth, and way too much caffeine.

It’s a place for real conversations, deep discomfort, and the kind of honesty that doesn’t always say “please.”

But it isn’t a free-for-all.


So here’s how we do things around here:




1. Respect the Room


Bring your real self, but don’t bring hate. Racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, or any other form of discrimination will get you kicked out.

No warnings.

No tolerance.




2. No Performative Bullshit


Virtue signaling, trolling, or hijacking someone’s pain for your clout?

Nope. We’re here for truth, not branding exercises.




3. Listen First


You don’t have to agree with everything. But if your first instinct is to argue instead of understand, this might not be your spot.




4. Protect the Vulnerable


If someone shares something personal, don’t weaponize it. This includes comment sections, emails, and private conversations.




5. Don’t Be a Creeper


No spam, harassment, unsolicited advice, or weird DMs. Seriously. Just don’t.




6. Accountability is Sexy


We all screw up. When (not if) that happens—own it.

Apologize.

Do better.




7. Leave Room for Growth


This is a place for uncomfortable truths, yes—but also compassion, learning, and change.

Be open.

Be humble.

Be a little less sure of yourself than you were five minutes ago.




This space is curated—not censored. If you violate these values, you’ll be removed. No debate, no drama, no second chances.


Got it? Good.